“People do things and an obliger is shocked and appalled by something someone else does. And everyone else thinks it’s fine.” Gretchen Rubin

“People do things and an obliger is shocked and appalled by something someone else does. And everyone else thinks it’s fine.”

“An obliger is like: If you can’t be a citizen of humanity and wash out your own dish, you’re a thoughtless and soulless barbarian.”

“Questioners are like: It’s not efficient.”

“An upholder is like: It’s not my job.”

“A rebel is like: I don’t feel like it.”

“An obliger thinks really it’s powerfully wrong.”

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“People do things and an obliger is shocked and appalled by something someone else does. And everyone else thinks it’s fine.” Gretchen Rubin

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